Patricia DeFinis
Patricia DeFinis, of Northeast Philadelphia, sadly passed away on April 2, 2025, at the age of 70.
Daughter of the late Anthony and Patricia DeFinis. Loving wife of the late Bob Nolfi. Beloved mother of Nina Pewdo (Joe) and Ava Shields (Mike). Cherished grandmother of Scarlett.
Patricia was one of 13 siblings, preceded in death by two. She is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews.
Family and friends are invited to attend her services on Wednesday, April 9th, at McCafferty Funeral & Cremation Inc., 6711 Frankford Ave., Philadelphia, PA 19135 (between Unruh & Knorr Sts.). Visitation will be held from 11:30 AM to 1:00 PM, followed by a family service with eulogies at 1:00 PM.
Patty was one of my closest friends. I would fo so far as to say she was family. In fact when she would convince me to call any Dr. Appt or nurses aid program or Comcast or anything that involved Indonesian or Indian call centers she would always insist :You talk to them Chris because I'm your aunt patty - who doesn't have the patience to talk to the computers and can't deal with the non Americans. Never learned or wanted to to text either and always told me the phone is on the fritz beeping at me again.Fix it please. I was always welcomed in her home and relieved like a long lost friend. She would always call me up to visit because she hated to be alone. Her and I shared a lot in common with the perspective of the world falling into hell and our lives like everyone else not being what it could be. I remember shortly after I met her she had this excitement to go back to church since we would talk theology and wanting to know God. So I was able to finagle her into my vehicle across the backseat and used a lyft at the church to get her there.They were gracious and sat us in the front of the congregation with a stool for her left hand even brought us waterbottles. First class treatment. I just remember her asking me to drive around holmsburg to see old spots and reminisce. She would point out all the families jobs or buildings and I got the whole tour. She was so special and with my family in other states she would invite me for every holiday and cookout and basically adopted me. I was real sad when I saw her house empty the other day because of the roommates she had and loved?, all their stuff was gone and I don't think that's right considering they were the ones taking care of her when I wasn't around and when i was . Now her roommates like jad lost his tools, Tony lost a number of possessions. And my other friend lost half of her possessions, and her children's, not to mention her home. No notice no consideration.Life is never easy but patty brought light to all of us she loved and I miss her everyday. End of an era end of a family. God bless my friend Patty
Wow! Patty, I miss you so much already! I’m very grateful that we always stayed close throughout our lives. You welcomed everyone and were always the first one to volunteer to host a family party. Your incredible sense of humor & wit will never be forgotten! Love your baby Sister Angel.
I send all my prayers 🙏 to Patricia children and the whole Definis family.nephew Branden sends his love and prayers 🙏
Dear Nina & Ava… memories of our Patty will be shared and give us comfort, she was one of a kind. My heart goes out to you both and I hope you find peace in knowing she is still present in our hearts. My love to you, cousins, will always recall how proud Aunt Patty was of her beautiful girls, Kathy Bic
DeFinis family. It breaks my heart like yours to say goodbye to Patricia. I have seen her in a while but still have strong bonds from growing up together. She is looking down on us with your mom and dad and brothers. Rest in peace. Love cousin Michael.
My Beautiful Sister, you made our home growing up so much better Dad and Mom lit up whenever you were around. Your Love for movies, music and improv. Your fabulous sense of humor. Making everyone laugh. Sunday dinners with Grandmom. Coming to work with me and days long of conversations. I will cherish the memories and the time we had you Patty, you gave so much of your spirit. So Sadly missed , so young to leave us. Till we all are reunited I will miss your beautiful smile. Your Little Brother Kevin 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
My Beautiful Sister, you made our home growing up so much better Dada and Mom lit up whenever you were around. Your Love for movies, music and improv. Your fabulous sense of humor. Making everyone laugh. Sunday dinners with Grandmom. Coming to work with me and days long of conversations. I will cherish the memories and the time we had you Patty, you gave so much of your spirit. So Sadly missed , so young to leave us. Till we all are reunited I will miss your beautiful smile. Your Little Brother Kevin 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
My Beautiful sister, you made us Laugh and smile always .Dad and mom would light up whenever you were around . Growing up with you was wonderful and you made our home so much better. Lots of great memories of you helping grandmom cook on Sunday. Your singing and watching movies Your sense of humor and beautiful smile made everyone happy. I will cherish the time we had together with you .and you will be forever in my heart.I Love you always Patty. Your little brother Kevin❤️❤️❤️
Nina & Ava, I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a vibrant & welcoming person, always with her gorgeous smile! Have many great memories of times spent with you all, on Christmas eve, etc💔🙏
So sorry for your loss Nina, Ava and families. Our deepest sympathy and prayers for you. Aunt Pat will surely be loved and missed.
Patty, I just spoke to you two days ago. I know that you are now in a better place. The grief is really unbelievable because we loved you so much and you went through so much but I know you’re in a better place now we will celebrate your life and the good things and your wonderful New granddaughter. We will celebrate your life Patty just the way you would like it. I love you your sister Cookie.
Aunt Pat, will always miss your great sense of humor and fun times I had with you growing up, to say you made us laugh is an understatement, you were so much fun to visit and hang out with, I am happy you are at peace now with Bob, you will be missed...
Aunt Pat, will always miss your great sense of humor and fun times I had with you growing up, to say you made us laugh is an understatement, you were so much fun to visit and hang out with, I am happy you are at peace now with Bob, you will be missed…
Patty, I just spoke to you two days ago. I know that you are now in a better place. The grief is really unbelievable because we loved you so much and you went through so much but I know you’re in a better place now we will celebrate your life and the good things and your wonderful New granddaughter. We will celebrate your life Patty just the way you would like it. I love you your sister Cookie.
So sorry for your loss Nina, Ava and families. Our deepest sympathy and prayers for you. Aunt Pat will surely be loved and missed.
Nina & Ava, I am so sorry for your loss. She was such a vibrant & welcoming person, always with her gorgeous smile! Have many great memories of times spent with you all, on Christmas eve, etc💔🙏
My Beautiful sister, you made us Laugh and smile always .Dad and mom would light up whenever you were around . Growing up with you was wonderful and you made our home so much better. Lots of great memories of you helping grandmom cook on Sunday. Your singing and watching movies Your sense of humor and beautiful smile made everyone happy. I will cherish the time we had together with you .and you will be forever in my heart.I Love you always Patty. Your little brother Kevin❤️❤️❤️
My Beautiful Sister, you made our home growing up so much better Dada and Mom lit up whenever you were around. Your Love for movies, music and improv. Your fabulous sense of humor. Making everyone laugh. Sunday dinners with Grandmom. Coming to work with me and days long of conversations. I will cherish the memories and the time we had you Patty, you gave so much of your spirit. So Sadly missed , so young to leave us. Till we all are reunited I will miss your beautiful smile. Your Little Brother Kevin 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
My Beautiful Sister, you made our home growing up so much better Dad and Mom lit up whenever you were around. Your Love for movies, music and improv. Your fabulous sense of humor. Making everyone laugh. Sunday dinners with Grandmom. Coming to work with me and days long of conversations. I will cherish the memories and the time we had you Patty, you gave so much of your spirit. So Sadly missed , so young to leave us. Till we all are reunited I will miss your beautiful smile. Your Little Brother Kevin 🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
DeFinis family. It breaks my heart like yours to say goodbye to Patricia. I have seen her in a while but still have strong bonds from growing up together. She is looking down on us with your mom and dad and brothers. Rest in peace. Love cousin Michael.
Dear Nina & Ava… memories of our Patty will be shared and give us comfort, she was one of a kind. My heart goes out to you both and I hope you find peace in knowing she is still present in our hearts. My love to you, cousins, will always recall how proud Aunt Patty was of her beautiful girls,
Kathy Bic
I send all my prayers 🙏 to Patricia children and the whole Definis family.nephew Branden sends his love and prayers 🙏
Wow! Patty, I miss you so much already! I’m very grateful that we always stayed close throughout our lives. You welcomed everyone and were always the first one to volunteer to host a family party. Your incredible sense of humor & wit will never be forgotten!
Love your baby Sister Angel.
Patty was one of my closest friends. I would fo so far as to say she was family. In fact when she would convince me to call any Dr. Appt or nurses aid program or Comcast or anything that involved Indonesian or Indian call centers she would always insist :You talk to them Chris because I’m your aunt patty – who doesn’t have the patience to talk to the computers and can’t deal with the non Americans. Never learned or wanted to to text either and always told me the phone is on the fritz beeping at me again.Fix it please. I was always welcomed in her home and relieved like a long lost friend. She would always call me up to visit because she hated to be alone. Her and I shared a lot in common with the perspective of the world falling into hell and our lives like everyone else not being what it could be. I remember shortly after I met her she had this excitement to go back to church since we would talk theology and wanting to know God. So I was able to finagle her into my vehicle across the backseat and used a lyft at the church to get her there.They were gracious and sat us in the front of the congregation with a stool for her left hand even brought us waterbottles. First class treatment. I just remember her asking me to drive around holmsburg to see old spots and reminisce. She would point out all the families jobs or buildings and I got the whole tour. She was so special and with my family in other states she would invite me for every holiday and cookout and basically adopted me. I was real sad when I saw her house empty the other day because of the roommates she had and loved?, all their stuff was gone and I don’t think that’s right considering they were the ones taking care of her when I wasn’t around and when i was . Now her roommates like jad lost his tools, Tony lost a number of possessions. And my other friend lost half of her possessions, and her children’s, not to mention her home. No notice no consideration.Life is never easy but patty brought light to all of us she loved and I miss her everyday. End of an era end of a family. God bless my friend Patty