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Mary Phoenix

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Mary Phoenix (née Mallamaci, Sweeney), 82, of Philadelphia, PA, passed away unexpectedly on September 15, 2026.
 
Mary was born on September 19, 1943, in Philadelphia to Mary and Dominic Mallamaci. She spent her childhood surrounded by family and friends at her father’s restaurant. Some of her happiest childhood memories were made during summers spent in Ocean City, NJ.
 
Mary had a personality that made her truly one of a kind. She loved listening to oldies music and could often be found with her favorite songs playing in the background. She was a devoted Eagles and Phillies fan and never missed an opportunity to cheer them on. She was also incredibly proud of her Irish heritage, something that was an important part of who she was.
 
She was a proud wife to her first husband, Harry, and loved having the opportunity to be a stay at mother to her two kids. She loved spending time in the summer with them in the Poconos. 
 
Mary loved to travel, and some of her most cherished memories with her second husband, bob, were made traveling together. They enjoyed traveling up and down the East Coast and taking frequent cruises, always finding new places to explore.
 
Mary was preceded in death by her first husband, Harry, and her second husband, Bob. She leaves behind her children, Maureen [dec. Mike] and Harry [Janelle], and her beloved grandchildren, Lauren, Shawn, Tori, Julianne, and Amanda. Also survived by her brother, Joe (Joanne), her nephews Joe (Sue) and Anthony along with extended family she cared deeply about. 
 
A memorial service for Mary will be held on Monday, September 21, 2026, at McCafferty Funeral & Cremation Inc., 6711 Frankford Ave. (between Unruh & Knorr Streets). Family and friends may visit and offer comfort to Mary’s family from 9:30 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home. A prayer service will begin at 11:00 a.m.
 
Further arrangements will be held at the convenience of her family.

Peg hesford

I miss you Mary. I'll miss your cheery calls and great perspectives on the world and life that were mind provoking. You had such a positive and 'can do attitude.' With love, Peg

Melanie Farrar

Maureen and family, I am so sorry for your loss.

Kathy Kilbride

Friends for more than 50 years. So many happy and sad times we've been through together. From just sitting together and enjoying a cup of tea to vacation trips together, enjoying shows at Walnut Street Theater, you will be missed my friend. Perhaps there is a Tony's Place in heaven where your predeceased family and friends are welcoming you. RIP, Mary!

Celia Gallo

My deepest condolences to Maureen & family. May your memories bring you peace and comfort. Mary, I know you are ligthing up heaven with your beautiful smile and warm heart. Some of my fondest memories as a child were walking home from St Ambrose with Maureen and you telling us something funny. I remember always feeling light and laughter when you were around. You had a wonderful sense of humor and were always very kind. Rest peacefully 🩷 love, Celia

Kimberly Ryan

I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Maureen I am here for you. Always and forever! Love you! Praying for you and your family

Tara L Olson

Aunt Mary was truly one of a kind, in the best possible way. She had a big heart and she loved her family and friends (including my mom) more than anything else. She was a huge part of our lives. She will be missed by everyone in the Kilbride family.

Ann Lee Smith

My deepest condolences to Maureen and Mary's family. I have many fond memories of Mary during my high school years.

Sue Mallamaci

So many memories from freshman year of high school to our annual thanksgiving and Christmas dinners together. She was one of a kind! And an amazing candle maker 😌 Maureen, Lauren, and Shawn… YOU THREE were her EVERYTHING❤️❤️ You were there for her through every up and down. You supported her and loved her. She is looking down proud of you three and of course thankful 😌. Love you all ❤️❤️❤️

Sue Mallamaci

So many memories from freshman year of high school to our annual thanksgiving and Christmas dinners 🩷🩷🙏🏻🙏🏻 Maureen, Lauren and Shawn we are all here for you. You three were her everything. You took care of her, loved her. Were ALWAYS there for her. Love you guys 💔🙏🏻🩷

Edward Wynne

Thoughts and prayers for you Mary and your family.

Maureen Sweeney

Mom, love and miss you! You had a heart of gold and would do anything for us 💛

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  3. So many memories from freshman year of high school to our annual thanksgiving and Christmas dinners 🩷🩷🙏🏻🙏🏻 Maureen, Lauren and Shawn we are all here for you. You three were her everything. You took care of her, loved her. Were ALWAYS there for her. Love you guys 💔🙏🏻🩷

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  4. So many memories from freshman year of high school to our annual thanksgiving and Christmas dinners together. She was one of a kind! And an amazing candle maker 😌 Maureen, Lauren, and Shawn… YOU THREE were her EVERYTHING❤️❤️ You were there for her through every up and down. You supported her and loved her. She is looking down proud of you three and of course thankful 😌. Love you all ❤️❤️❤️

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  5. My deepest condolences to Maureen and Mary’s family. I have many fond memories of Mary during my high school years.

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  6. Aunt Mary was truly one of a kind, in the best possible way. She had a big heart and she loved her family and friends (including my mom) more than anything else. She was a huge part of our lives. She will be missed by everyone in the Kilbride family.

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  7. I am so sorry to hear of your mom’s passing. Maureen I am here for you. Always and forever! Love you! Praying for you and your family

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  8. My deepest condolences to Maureen & family. May your memories bring you peace and comfort.

    Mary, I know you are ligthing up heaven with your beautiful smile and warm heart. Some of my fondest memories as a child were walking home from St Ambrose with Maureen and you telling us something funny. I remember always feeling light and laughter when you were around. You had a wonderful sense of humor and were always very kind.

    Rest peacefully 🩷 love, Celia

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  9. Friends for more than 50 years. So many happy and sad times we’ve been through together. From just sitting together and enjoying a cup of tea to vacation trips together, enjoying shows at Walnut Street Theater, you will be missed my friend. Perhaps there is a Tony’s Place in heaven where your predeceased family and friends are welcoming you. RIP, Mary!

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  11. I miss you Mary. I’ll miss your cheery calls and great perspectives on the world and life that were mind provoking. You had such a positive and ‘can do attitude.’ With love, Peg

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